I'm not that original poster but wanted to sY thanks for all the suggestions. I did do the picture of us, which daycare operators threatened. (Humorously) to take away cuz she carried it around crying. I have taken a firmer stand and basically told DD this is the way it is and no amount of crying is going to change it. That I wish I was with her but worked like the other mommies, daddies, etc. I do think it was be omg more of a game with her in part, but since being firming, she's done much better. Actually had two days in a row do zero crying! Provider so happy she gave her a quarter. Ha!