09-14-2013 01:43 PM
So I have diastasis recti from my last kids (at it's worst you could put four fingers in my stomach all the way up to your middle knuckles when I engaged my abs) and I did a lot of work closing them, a large part of which involves going around consciously making sure that I'm always envisioning zipping my middle back together and engaging my trans abs as much as possible. Now that I'm almost 11 weeks, I decided to see what would happen if I just let things relax and it is a very definite bump. Like the same size as when I was 24 weeks pregnant with my second, lol. At what point do you just let it hang out? I'm not quite sure I'm ready for it to be super obvious.
I guess on the plus side I won't have to go through the is she fat or is she pregnant stage.