3 month old scared of some toys, people she doesn't know, waking up in a different location
09-24-2013 10:59 AM
My 3 month old has suddenly started to get scared at random stuff and is very difficult to console when it does occur.
Things that scare her are stuff like
1. People she doesn't know ( well this has really only happened one time. she did not cry at all when meeting all of my coworkers )
2. some toys (specifically a rubber ducky that we used to squirt water on her belly during bath time)
3. waking up in a different location from the one she fell asleep in
4. when my husband and I yelled and jumped while watching a movie that we didn't realize would be that kind of scary.
I get #4, but not sure why at 3 months the rest of the things are freaking her out so bad and why she is so difficult to console. I tried rocking her, hugging her, kissing her, telling her it is ok, etc and she just cries and cries for a couple of minutes before she calms down.
My mother in law swooped in and grabbed her from me on one occasion (kind of made me angry as I was worried about my baby). All I can think is that she thought I didn't know what I was doing. She couldn't console her either though (hahaha).
Any ideas on what causes this, ways to prevent it, and better ways to console her and is this normal (i'm a first time mom)?
Re: 3 month old scared of some toys, people she doesn't know, waking up in a different location
09-25-2013 02:18 PM
It's normal behavior. Keep picking her up and responding to her cries. Some babies begin to exhibit seperation anxiety much sooner, and stranger anxiety is also a part of that. It sounds like she is possibly a higher needs infant than others and a little more anxious. Responding to her when she is anxious right now will actually make her more, not less, confident in the future since it helps establish you as being a safe, predictable thing for her.