Re: Getting stressed about ttc
09-12-2013 02:28 PM
I feel your pain. I had 13 YEARS of secondary infertility. After I had my oldest daughter, I went on the pill for a couple of years until we were ready to start trying again. Years and years went by, I spoke to my the Nurse Practioner at my OB/GYN a few times and she just kind of blew me off. So years more went by, I got divorced (not because of that), another year or so went by and got remarried. We went several years married before we decided to try to get pregnant. I had one short pregnancy that broke my heart. After of over a year trying after that, I was FINALLY sent to a fertility specialist and found out that I have endometriosis. Had surgery to have that removed and finally...FINALLY had #2. Petrified the whole pregnancy...afterall, I was 37 and not in my prime by this time.
I guess the short story is don't give up until they run out of answers. I know your pain and I feel for you. <3